On April 5, 2024, I became a widow.

Unlike most widows, I don’t have any wrinkles, or even a single gray hair. I still get asked to show my ID when I order a drink!

This is the story of my journey. I am striving to continue living a joyful adventurous life, even though my best friend is gone. I hope that this blog will be helpful to other millennial widows who need a seed of hope.

  • Our Culture of Celebratory Excess

    Our Culture of Celebratory Excess

    I woke up at 6 am this morning with a profound realization. We spend way more time, energy and money investing in life’s happiest moments than helping people…

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  • Living A Dream

    Living A Dream

    “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” When Steve and I went to Hawaii in 2020, he bought a…

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  • She Chose to Be the Light

    She Chose to Be the Light

    “You are what you eat.” We’ve all heard this saying before. But I think it has a meaning that goes far beyond making healthy dietary choices to sustain…

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  • 35 is the New 25

    35 is the New 25

    A friend asked me recently, “How does it feel to be 35?” I paused for a moment to consider the question seriously, and then said, Honestly, I feel…

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  • My First Solo Trip!

    My First Solo Trip!

    Stephen and I loved to travel. In our ten years together, we visited twelve different countries. This is a very impressive statistic, given that our first five years…

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  • Is it Okay to Feel Happy?

    Is it Okay to Feel Happy?

    I’ve been wrestling with what I call “happiness guilt” for months. Last year, I was spending some quality time with one of my friends, and she asked me…

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